Most people look for a relationship to make them feel better

Most people are looking for a relationship because they want the relationship to make them feel better, which puts all of the responsibility for alignment on the other person.

When you give somebody else the responsibility for something that only you can do for yourself, they’re not going to get it, for sure. They’re not going to get it. They weren’t born to be your guidance system. They weren’t born to cater to your desires. You were.

Abraham - Amsterdam 2022