If you need to control anyone or anything to feel good, you’re screwed

You cannot control anything. If controlling any person or any circumstance or any event, controlling anything, is necessary for you to feel good, you’re screwed. You’re in deep doo doo. You can’t do it. Not for very long.

Oh, you might be able to convince some. You might be able to break your horse and train your dog and make your kids obey. You might even have enough bombs to cower a whole nation. But you will not find the happiness or the alignment or the empowerment that you seek through trying to control anything. That’s not where it comes from.

Satisfaction comes from only one place: moving in the direction of who you are.

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