Influencing & Being Influenced quotes

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Control your point of attraction, not the behaviour of others

And that is the reason that we were asking just for a little while that you for yourself make the distinction between accomplishing or controlling - we don’t like the word control very much - but controlling my point of attraction, rather than controlling another person’s behaviour.

Because if you will focus there for just a little bit, you’ll notice that if you’re under the influence of your source, your timing your behaviour, what you call forth from another will be different

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We want you to control your point of attraction. We are not wanting you to control the behaviour of others, but it feels to you that you need to control the behaviours of others. Otherwise you’re not controlling your point of attraction.

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We don’t want your motive to be to affect someone else’s behaviour. We want all of your intentionality to be around your connecting to your source energy.

Abraham

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Action quotes

Manipulation is what you do when you don’t know how to calibrate You know why people manipulate things? Because they’re not calibrating them in to being. Manipulation is what you do when you don’t know how to calibrate. Manipulation is what you do. It’s so hard to do things with action. And it’s so easy to do things with the leverage of your inner being and universal help and the laws of the universe. Abraham

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https://forum.manifestinglab.com/t/abraham-on-the-current-world-situation/1290/71?u=stingray

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Pushing Against quotes

A million people could be pushing against you Because others cannot vibrate in your experience, they cannot affect the outcome of your experience. They can hold their opinions, but unless their opinion affects your opinion, their opinion matters not at all. A million people could be pushing against you and it would not negatively affect you unless you push back. That million people pushing against you are affecting their millions of vibrations. They are affecting what happens in their experie…

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https://forum.manifestinglab.com/t/the-9th-dimensional-pleiadian-collective-on-the-current-global-condition/1428/57?u=stingray

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https://forum.manifestinglab.com/t/the-9th-dimensional-pleiadian-collective-on-the-current-global-condition/1428/47?u=stingray

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https://forum.manifestinglab.com/t/abraham-on-the-current-world-situation/1290/65?u=stingray

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Relationships quotes

Only you can rock your boat What others are doing around you seems very important when you have not found your own steadiness. You want to say to them, “Don’t rock my boat! If you rock my boat, I can’t be steady.” But the truth of it is, you’re the only boat-rocker in your world. Only you can rock your boat. Abraham, Excerpted from Phoenix, AZ on 2/1/14

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Relationships quotes

Attempting to Control Others Attracts More to Be Controlled It is easy to understand how you would come to the conclusion that your path to feeling good is through influencing or controlling the behavior of others. But as you attempt to control them (through influence or coercion), you discover that not only can you not contain them – but your attention to them brings more like them into your experience. You simply cannot get to where you want to be by controlling or eliminating the unwanted. …

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Relationships quotes

You are not in jeopardy because you create your own reality You are the creator of your own reality, and so you are not in jeopardy. You do not need to control the behavior of others in order for you to thrive. Your attention to things that you think they do that keeps you from your thriving is, in fact, what keeps you from your thriving… It is not what they do to you; it’s what you do to you in fear of what you think that they will do to you. Abraham, Excerpted from Philadelphia, PA on 5/12/…

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Two who are connected to the Energy Stream…

One who is connected to the Energy Stream is more powerful than a million who are not.

And two who are harmoniously focused and connected to the Energy Stream brings about a co-creative endeavor that cannot be matched by anything else in all of the Universe.

Abraham, Excerpted from Los Angeles, CA on 7/26/97

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https://forum.manifestinglab.com/t/your-true-power-is-in-alignment/2687

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Harmony - a powerful Vortex

Is harmony one note that everybody is singing? Or is it a whole lot of notes that are in vibrational harmony with each other? When you give your attention to anything, the Universe responds to it.

When two of you are giving your attention to it, and there is no contradiction, it is a powerful vortex.

That’s why a gathering such as this can achieve a great deal as you come together in greater and greater harmony and take thought beyond that which it has been before.

Abraham, Excerpted from Chicago, IL on 4/25/99